Can Masculinity be Non-Toxic? Biblical Manhood, Raising Boys, and the Crisis of Men.

Men and women are different. And those differences are not just biological. But you already knew that, didn’t you? So why is that simple admission so important, especially for people of faith?

 

We’re at a critical crossroad as Christians. We have a choice to join our post-modern culture and dismiss gender roles as bygone relics from oppressive societies that have no use in our progressive, enlightened era. For the sake of being accepted and relevant, we can try to label gender roles as simply constructs of the collective imagination of the oppressive patriarchy and nothing more or nothing less than that. But try as we might, they won’t be dismissed and they’re not going away.

 

Why? Because Genesis 5:2 tells us that, “He [GOD] created them male and female and blessed them. And he named them "Mankind" when they were created.” Jesus would later echo this in Mark 10:6 when He declared that “at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female’”. They’re not going away because they were made and given to us by God.

 

What does the Bible say about masculinity and what it means to be a man? What does “toxic masculinity” say about being a man? Is it possible for us to celebrate masculinity without it being toxic? Is promoting masculinity among men the same as degrading and oppressing women? How do we raise our sons to be spiritual leaders, selfless, humble, temperate, self-controlled, and responsible men that know how to honor women and please the Lord?